Showing posts with label hockey wives in Europe. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hockey wives in Europe. Show all posts

7.05.2011

about that time of year again...

It's about that time again.  In a few short weeks, we'll be packing up our suitcases and traveling back across the pond for another hockey season.  I've been avoiding the idea of packing so far, but I know that July 28th is going to creep up on me.... fast.  Four days this weekend will be spent celebrating my brother-in-law's wedding, then next week we have scheduled a last minute trip to Florida. 

After that, we'll have less than 2 weeks until our departure date.  Time to go start dusting off the suitcases. 

Thank goodness most of our stuff is still in Finland- there was no sense in bringing all of our winter stuff home for the summer.  But, this limits me to only one suitcase to bring back with me, since that was all I brought home in the Spring.  Hopefully all of my new shopping purchases I've made over the summer fit in as well....

I'll also be replenishing things like our medicine kit and other necessary items that can't be found in Finland, and making a few necessary purchases that we somehow lived without last season (sling-box anyone?!) 

And then there's the dreaded vet paperwork for Miss Maddie, ugh.  At least it will be easier this year since we know what to do, how to do it, and she has her very own little Finland/EU "Pet Passport". 


So, here's where my headaches from last year are getting put to good use to make your life easier:

no, that's not me... but a good idea of how I look when
attempting to pack for the season
(source)
*If you're looking for a packing list on what to bring (and what not to bring) when moving to Europe, check out my list HERE!

*If you're looking for information about traveling to Europe with your dog, check out my info HERE!

(here is also another great list written by a friend/fellow hockey wife, with some great tips for packing for a warmer climate and when you have the convienence of driving vs. flying, and for moving from Canada to the USA)

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3.24.2011

packing for a season in europe... dun dun dun

As I'm sure many of you remember, a while back I wrote a post about How To Move to Europe With Your Dog.  I got a lot of positive feedback about it, and I'm so happy that I could pass the info on to those needing it- hopefully it can help some more of you along the way, too!  In that same post, I also promised I'd write a post about packing, what to bring, etc. and I'm finally getting around to posting it.  Hopefully it will come in handy for any of you hockey ladies heading over to Europe next season, or at least make you a little less clueless (like I was) about the whole process.  [Though, it's definitely not just for hockey ladies.... Students, travelers... anyone moving to Europe for a several month period of time will probably find this information useful as well :)] 

When I came to Finland this year, I checked 4 bags and brought one carry on.  Since I was traveling separately from my husband, some of the stuff in these bags was his, but I'll admit... most was mine.  I think I did pretty good though... I use pretty much everything I brought and don't think I've really ever thought of anything that I left at home that I wish I had here with me (guess that means it's time to get rid of some of that stuff sitting in my parent's basement!) 

I think the general consensus is that hockey bags are the easiest to use for your move to Europe.  They're lightweight (well, at least before you add the clothes, shoes, makeup, etc) and you can fit a lot of stuff in them.  You just have to be very careful to keep them within size and *weight* restrictions.  Don't just go buy the biggest ones you can find.  And most people would agree, the ones with wheels make life much easier! (your significant other will probably give you crap for wanting a hockey bag with wheels.  If he does, politely remind him how much work you do for him, and that you'll probably be making a move with these bags on your own at least once.  I don't know about you, but I'm NOT carrying 4+ bags through an airport, up and down apartment stairs, etc. by myself).  As far as how many bags, that's up to you and how much stuff you feel you need or want.  Remember, when you head back home at the end of the season, you'll definitely be coming back with more stuff than you came with (ie: my husband got four winter jackets from the team this year.  FOUR!!  That's like, 3/4 of a suitcase right there!)  And if you're like us and spending multiple seasons over here.... well, let's just say I don't even want to know how much stuff we're going to have by the end of our time here.  But, it is nice to be able to buy some stuff to make our place a little more "home-y" and know that it will get more than a few months use out of it.  We'll probably end up either donating a lot of it or passing some of it on to other teammates or friends over here.
(TIP: If you're so lucky to have visitors at some point, send some stuff home with them!)

So... getting down to the biggest question.  What to pack?  Let's break it down into these categoriesClothing, Accessories, Shoes, Health & Beauty & Misc. Goodies.

CLOTHING:
*Jeans - wear 'em almost every day
*Leggings - a close 2nd to jeans, especially when comfort is my priority!
*Dress Pants - I brought a pair or two of nicer dress pants for anything I would need to dress up for.  They have come in handy once.
*Sweaters - pretty much my daily go-to.  It's freeezing in Finland, so lots of layers is the key!
*Tee's - long sleeve, short sleeve... anything I can layer with the sweaters!
*Blouses - a no brainer
*A nice dress or two.  We had to dress up a few times this year for team events (Christmas party, etc.) or just going out with friends.  This is where the LBD comes in handy... so versatile! 
*Socks, Undies, etc. - I probably have 2 weeks worth... maybe a little bit more of socks.  They're fairly easy to squish in between things (or put in shoes) when packing your bags!
*Workout clothes - I have probably 5 or 6 different "outfits" and just mix & match them.
*Pajamas & lounge clothes - I brought a few sets of each
*Jackets & Coats:  I have lived in my black North Face Metropolis parka this winter.  Also have my long pea coat and several other jackets & coats - Finland is COLD so I didn't want to be lacking in the coat department!

I guess the general idea is to pack stuff that is logical.  The other ladies (here in Finland at least) do not get all dolled up to go to the games like many back in North America do.  You can if you want, but you might get some funny looks.  I also know that many arenas in countries like Germany, France, etc. aren't fully closed in, making for a rather cold environment in December and January!  Plan accordingly.  And even though it may be Summer & warm when you're heading over, don't waste a bunch of space packing tons of summer-y clothes.  You won't use them more than a month, and it won't be warm enough yet in the spring time to wear them.

ACESSORIES:
*Jewelry - cover the basics first.  Simple stud earrings, & a pair of hoops or 2.  Simple necklaces and bracelets that will go with everything.  Your favorite watch.  Once you've got those covered, start adding in the extras as space allows.  If you have a different pair of earrings or watch for every outfit... good luck! try and narrow it down to the most versatile  pieces.
*Purses/Handbags - Bring a couple of your favorites, but leave the rest behind.  Take the biggest one as your carry on so it doesn't take up suitcase space.  Bring some sort of satchel/crossbody bag, as it will be perfect for traveling around & sightseeing.
*Scarves - I don't think there's a day all winter that I didn't wear a scarf.  They're lifesavers in the bitter cold, and a cute accessory to the perfect outfit.  I have probably 12 here, some that I bought here & some that I brought from home.  As with everything else, just go for versatile- what will go with the most stuff?
*Mittens/Gloves & Hats - In the bitter cold of winter, mittens were not optional!  Bring a couple pairs.  Same goes for hats, though I'm not a big hat person.  I usually just used my hood on my North Face to keep my head warm but my hair in somewhat decent shape!  I also brought a couple casual hats as outfit accessories and a baseball cap or two for when I run outside in the sun.
*Belts - Bring a couple of your most versatile (starting to notice the trend yet...? :) )

SHOES:
*Sneakers - one or 2 pairs for working out, walking around, etc.
*Flats - one or 2 pairs.  They're perfect for fall and for walking around, and you'll be excited to pull them out again in the Spring (if it gets warm enough before you leave!)
*Dressy - one pair, 2 max.  You'll probably only be needing them a couple times, don't waste the space in your suitcase (and don't say I didn't warn you!)  Make sure they're ones that can be worn in Summer and in Winter.
*Boots - aside from my actual winter boots, I lived in them.  I have a few pairs of flats and some that are higher.  But let me tell you... with all of the ice & snow, the flats have moved to the front of the closet.
*Winter Boots - I LIVED in my Ugg Adirondack boots this Winter.  They were so perfect for walking around in the snow and ice (as I've mentioned before, they don't do a great job cleaning off the sidewalks & roads)  and were so warm and comfy.  If you think you'll make it all winter without a pair of (cute) winter boots, I suggest you think again :)
*Summer-y - one or two pairs of your favorite summer sandals will do.  They're small enough to fit easily in your bags, but won't get used past the first month or two (at the most). 

HEALTH & BEAUTY:
*Medicines - I made a kit of the basics - cough & cold medicine, ibuprofen/tylenol, airborne, vitamins, benadryl.  Take them out of the boxes if you can so they fit easier.  If and when you get sick, have a headache, etc. you'll be glad you have something to take that is familiar and that you can read the label of! 
*Cosmetics - I decided to bring 1 or 2 of everything so I had enough to get me through the first bit and get a sense of what I could find around here.  The department stores have most major cosmetic brands - MAC, Clinique, Dior, Chanel, Clarins.... etc.  as well as the smaller drugstore brands like Maybellene, Cover Girl, etc.  I personally use Bare Minerals, which is, of course, like the one brand that isn't big around here.  You can find it, but it's really expensive (a regular size foundation powder is 56 euros compared to $25 at home!)  so I ended up having my mom send me some more in a package mid-season. 
*Hair Products -Same as the cosmetics.  Bring enough to last you a month or two, and after that you should be able to find what you're looking for.
*Hair Styling - As far as hair dryers, straightening irons, curling irons, etc. go, in my opinion, your best best is to invest in some European tools.  If you're going to be spending more than one season over here, it's definitely worth it, and you won't risk ruining your stuff from home.  If you insist on bringing your stuff from home, you will need a special converter (if it's not dual-voltage) so make sure you get the right one (I believe it's a 2000 watt converter, but don't quote me on that) but keep in mind that it won't work the same.  My fancy schmancy straightener from home would only heat to one temperature (Fry!) and blow dryer only had about 1/2 the power as it does at home.  Not to mention I've heard stories of sparks flying out of them and stuff....  Save yourself the trouble, packing space, and fried hair... invest in some inexpensive but decent styling tools over here.  (one thing I should note though... I have had an impossible time trying to find a regular old curling iron in Finland.  I plan to buy a new dual voltage one at home this summer to use in both places.  In the meantime, I use my straightening iron to curl :) )

The general rule of thumb I use for this stuff is that if it's a European-produced product (Kerastase/L'Oreal, Chanel etc), it will be cheaper here (or the same price)... if it's a USA produced product (Clinique, Bare Minerals, Redken, etc) it's better to stock up on at home.

The key is to be flexible.  If you can't find exactly what you're looking for, there will most likely be something similar.  If there is a product or two that you know you cannot live without, bring a little more of that and a little less of something else.

MISC. GOODIES:
There are tons of gadgets and things that will make your life in Europe easier & more enjoyable.  Bring or invest in what you can, or what you think will be the most important to you.  I'm sure many of you already know about a lot of these things, but every now and then I run into someone who has never heard of something & really wished they would have known, so bear with me! 

*Computer/iPod/iPad etc. - self explanatory
*Digital Picture Frame - the perfect way to have lots of pictures of family and friends with you without actually hauling them all around.  One simple frame and you've got them all right there with you in your new home!
*DVD's - we brought some DVD's with us and are lucky to have a DVD player that will play them, but from what I understand not all DVD players over here will play American discs, so pack them at your own risk.  You may be better off sticking with the Sling Box (below) and renting/buying movies on iTunes.
*Skype - no brainer.  Video chat with family & friends back home.  Skype to skype calls are free, or you can call landlines or cell phones for a really low cost.  You can even set it up so that you have a North American phone number for family and friends to call you guys from their cell phones or landlines without long distance fees. 
*Amazon Kindle - I'm a person who likes to have a book in my hand, but the Kindle is very logical in this lifestyle.  You can download pretty much any book in the palm of your hand.  A selection of books in English vary depending on country/city (some have none)  and packing a bunch of books in your suitcase takes up extra space that could be used for something else (like another handbag!)
*Camera - another obvious one.  We just invested in a good SLR.  A decent camera is a must have when you're traveling the world!  You'll have wonderful pictures of all of the places you have been, plus family & friends will probably be wanting lots of updates and to see what life is like in Europe!
*Sling Box - Your tv channels from home... on your screen in Europe!  You'll be able to watch every single show just as you would at home.  You connect it to your cable box & internet in North America, and can log in online to watch your home tv from anywhere in the world.  Get the adapter to plug your computer into the television & it will be just like you're on your couch in North America.  Don't worry about the time difference - you can still DVR and everything just as you would at home!  You can also watch on iPads, smart phones, etc. when you're on the go. Here's the website to find out more about it (*note: those of you who have lived over here are aware that most American shows are blocked from watching online over here... so if you were planning on foregoing the Sling Box and just watching online, unfortunately you won't have much luck)
*Google Talk - most of the same features as Skype, but I found that I can use it to call phones in the U.S. for FREE.  I also use it on my Android phone to text friends and stuff.
*Face Time - similar to Skype and Google Talk, but for Mac/Apple users.  I don't know much about it because we haven't made the switch to Mac yet (will be this summer though!) and have Android/Blackberry phones, not iPhones.  But, from what I understand... it only works Apple to Apple.
*Phone apps - Kik messenger uses your data plan to text anyone, anywhere in the world (they must download it also, it may only work with Androids & iPhones, not sure).  Skype Mobile works similarly, but you can call also.  Google Talk can be used to text, too.  TuneIn Radio lets you listen to any radio station in the world on your phone.  Google Translate comes in handy when you're out and about (think: grocery store!).
*GPS - If you don't have some sort of GPS program on your phone over here, getting an inexpensive European GPS might be a good idea.  Navigating the streets of a foreign country are hard enough with the road signs, manual cars & different rules of the road... you'll find your way around much easier & be more comfortable driving here if you have something to give you directions along the way.  Wait and get it over here though... it will most likely be cheaper than the ones with European maps at home.

I'm sure there are tons more gadgets I could add to the list... but these are the main ones in my mind.  If you have another favorite, please share! 



So, that's my take on packing for a move to Europe.  Surely everyone is different and might prioritize different things, so take or leave whatever you'd like :)  Hopefully it's not too intimidating or confusing.  Feel free to let me know if you have any questions, I'm happy to help in any way I can!  If you have any tips to add to the list, or a list of your own to share, please leave a comment and share your ideas! :) 

(I will also be posting this information in my "Moving to Europe?" tab at the top of the page for easy access) :)

1.18.2011

moving to europe with your dog

When I started this blog, I knew I wanted to include some information and tips on moving to Europe, whether it be hockey related or not.  I will post my experiences and tips for packing, what to bring, what to do when you get there, and all that good stuff another day.  Since it's that time of year when new contracts in Europe start to arise for next season and the moving process with your dog can take quite a while, I figured now would be a good time to focus on:

Moving to Europe with your Dog

When I first found out that Europe would even be a possibility for this hockey season, one of my first questions was "how the heck do I move a dog to Europe?!"  It may sound simple, but it is actually kind of a pain in the butt (some countries are worse than others, ie: UK and Sweden!).  But, if you're like us, leaving your precious pooch behind is simply not an option.  Plus, who better to keep you company when you're over here?  It's definitely worth the (mild) headache, and hopefully this post will help make your process a lot smoother (and a LOT less confusing than it was for me!)  Depending on what country you are moving to and what vaccinations your dog already has, it may take a month or two or it could take several months or longer.  Be sure and plan ahead!

Thanks to my friends Google and Google Translate, our wonderful Vet at home, and some tips from fellow hockey wives, I managed to get all of the shots, paperwork, microchip, checkups, plane tickets, etc. done.  I think the most confusing part of it all was that the regulations are different for different countries.  Luckily, it is the same throughout most of Europe, so this post should help most of you out (thank goodness for the EU!)

Now, our dog, Maddie, is a Maltese/Poodle/Bichon mix, and weighs 10 lbs (or 4.5 kg in the land of Europe!)  so she traveled with me in the cabin under the seat. 


Depending on the size of your dog, you may or may not be able to do this also.  The regulations vary by airline, but for the most part the maximum weight for in-cabin travel is about 15 lbs (~7 kg, including the carrier), though in my opinion, a dog much bigger than Maddie might be too big for the carrier (which, of course, has size restrictions as well).   Anything over these limits requires travel as cargo.  The vet/vaccination/paperwork process should still be the same, but the plane ticket/crate process will be a bit different.  (note: this information is for travel from the U.S. to Europe.  If you're traveling from Canada or another country, some of the steps and requirements may be different)

Anyway, here is your "to-do" list to prep your pup for the trip across the pond:

- Research. Find as much information as possible on importing a dog to the country you are moving to.  Beware: just because Google takes you to a website, does not mean it's legit.  Obviously most of you are fully aware, but I found a lot of conflicting information out there, and by the time I separated the legitimate information from the illegitimate, I had wasted a lot of precious time.  Try searching for the local government food & agriculture website (their version of the USDA , which should have information about the importation of pets to their country).   In Finland it is called Evira.  Also, go to the USDA APHIS travel website, scroll down to where it says "List of Countries".  Find the country you are moving to and you should be linked to their pet import requirements  (note: you will later have to get an export stamp on your vet health certificate from the USDA APHIS office within a few days of your travel.  They use this list of requirements to check things off, so don't forget any of them!  They won't stamp your papers otherwise) .  Also, make sure your veterinarian is an approved vet (you can find a list of USDA Accredited Veterinarians on the USDA website link above) because all of the vaccines, treaments, and certificates must be filled out and signed by an approved vet only.  My recommendation is to find a vet who has lots of experience preparing dogs for travel to other countries.  Our home vet does, and it made the whole process a lot easier and a lot less stressful for both me and her. 


- Rabies/Titer Testing.  If the country you are moving to is considered "rabies-free" (hint: Sweden and the UK are the two main ones I can think of in Europe) you will need to have a rabies/titer test done well in advance of your travel.  You must do this or your dog will be quarantined upon your arrival!  The rabies titer test is done to ensure that your dog's rabies vaccinations have provided them with enough rabies antibodies for travel (ie: they want proof that your dog won't be spreading rabies into their "rabies-free" country).  Your vet will take a sample from your dog and send it to an EU Approved lab.  This must be done no less than 30 days after the rabies vaccination (given once the 15-digit chip is in place, as stated below) and at least 3 months (may differ in some countries) prior to importation.  If your dog does not "pass" the test, he or she will need another rabies vaccination.


- Vaccinations/Treatments.  I assume you all take your dog in for his/her annual checkup and shots, so this shouldn't be anything out of the ordinary.  The biggest one here is the rabies vaccination (there are certain standards for the type of shot, make sure you check with your vet to determine that it meets these standards).  Since you are coming from a country with low-incidence of rabies (both U.S. and Canada are considered this) your dog will not need to have the Rabies/Titer test done (unless the country you are moving to is "rabies-free" and requires it).  The requirement here is that your pooch needs to be given the vaccine at least 21 days prior to importation (this doesn't always apply to booster vaccines, but your health certificate must state the prior vaccine also).  The rabies vaccine must also be given after the 15-digit microchip is in place (I state it in the next section also, but this is an important one!) and the Rabies Vaccination Certificate (you should get one of these along with the rabies tag each time your dog has gotten/gets a rabies shot) must be signed and state the last day the vaccination is valid.

As far as other vaccines go, rabies was the only one we were required to have, but Maddie got her annual Bordatella (kennel cough- usually required for boarding and grooming) and Lyme disease vaccinations.  Not only is it important to us for her to have these, but I think it is important to have them on your certificates and paperwork to show that you take your dog's health very seriously.

Some countries, Finland included, require treatment againts echinococcosis tapeworms.  This needs to be done within 30 days of traveling.  It is just a little treat-like pill that they chew up and swallow, but must be given by the vet (and, once again, included on that health certificate signed by the vet!)


- Microchip.  Europe uses 15-digit micro chips for pet identification (conforming to ISO Standard 11784), and all dogs must have one.  Maddie had one put in her when she was a puppy, but it was a 10-digit one (of course we Americans have to have our own different way of doing it, it'd be too easy for them all to be the same!)  so she had to get another one.  We use the Home Again chip and like it.  There's one tiny catch with this one though:  your dog has to have her rabies vaccination after the chip is in place.  Our vet literally did them one right after another, which is perfectly ok, they just have to be done in that order.  So, even if your dog technically isn't due for another rabies shot yet, he/she may have to get another one if she has to get a new 15-digit chip (which was our case).


- Booking Plane Tickets.  This is where the huge headache came in for us.  Since the team was booking our flight, we had to relay all of the information on how to book a pet to them.  Between that and the language barrier, I'm amazed that it all worked out smoothly.  I can honestly say this was the most stressful part of our move (for me at least, lucky hubby was already in Finland!) 

They certainly don't make it easy to book a dog on your flight with you.  Airlines usually charge more for booking reservations over the phone, so it's recommended to do it online.  However, there is no way to make your "pet reservation" online, and most have a limit as to how many pets can be on board at one time.  So, every time we have traveled with Maddie, we have to scope out the ticket that we want, call the airline and say "okay, we're going to book "x" flight # on "x" day, and want to travel with an in-cabin pet.  Is there enough room for her on that/those flight(s)?"  If there is, then we go online, book it quick, and call the airline right back to make the pet reservation so we can confirm that she will be allowed on the plane.  Make sure you get a confirmation # or some sort of proof that you have a pet reservation.  Some airlines say that they won't "confirm" it until you check in (some do it as first-come-first-serve) but I'd push for it anyways.  How the heck are you supposed to just "show up" at the airport not knowing if your pet will be able to travel with you?  Like, what do they expect you to do with it if they say no? 

Another tip: if you have to connect flights, try and book all of your connections on the same airline.  This was another headache for us.  Even though I was traveling on "partner airlines", they seemed to have a lot of trouble communicating about travel with a pet.  If you must travel on more than one airline, make sure you call each airline separately and confirm your pet has a reservation on the flight. 
Another note about connecting flights:  I don't have personal experience with this since I flew directly from New York to Finland, so I can't be of much help... but if you are connecting in another European country other than your destination, you may have to go through Customs in that country also, and therefore could potentally need to have all of the paperwork for importing a pet to that country also.  You may or may not, I'm not sure, so just make sure you check that out before you travel!

Also, most countries accept imported pets at "approved points of entry" only, where the pet must be presented at customs.  Most big cities should be "approved", but it should specify which airports you can fly into with a pet when you are resesarching and reading over your country's pet import requirements.

All in all, the headache that comes from booking flights is totally not worth it.  More often than not, no one even notices that you have a pet with you (besides security- you have to have a special note on your ticket to bring your pet through).  No one on the plane ever even notices Maddie was there.  We usually get comments as we are deplaning from the flight attendants or other passengers like "Oh my goodness, a dog! She was so quiet, I had no idea you even had one with you!"

*This process might be slightly different if you are traveling with a large dog that travels as cargo, so check with your airline about the protocol for that (or maybe another fellow hockey wife/anyone who has traveled to Europe with a big dog would like to add their experience/advice??)

- Carrier/Crate.  If you have never flown with your dog before, you will need to purchase an airline-approved soft-sided carrier (for in-cabin pets) or hard crate (for pets traveling as cargo).  Airlines have specific requirements for these, and specifically state maximum dimensions and weight.  Make sure the carrier/crate is big enough for your dog.  He/she should be able to turn around in it and lie down comfortably.  We use a soft-sided Sherpa carrier (size Medium) and it has worked really well for us.  Most airlines are familiar with and approve of Sherpa carriers (provided they meet the size restrictions) and it has been very durable, it's comfortable to carry, and there are storage pockets in it for leash, food, toy(s), treats, paperwork- so you can keep it all in one place.  You can find them, along with lots of other larger hard crates at most pet stores (I believe ours is from Petsmart).  Don't wait until the last minute to do this either, make sure you get it well in advance so your dog has a chance to check it out and get used to it.  Put familiar toys, blankets, treats, etc. inside it so they feel comfortable with it and know that it is "theirs" and let them explore.  I usually take Maddie's out a day or 2 before we travel.  She knows that her carrier is her "airplane bag" and that it means that she will be going somewhere soon.  It gives her a chance to become familiar with it again and to mentally/emotionally prepare herself for a trip. 

For dogs traveling in cargo, I think many airlines require there to be water attached to the crate.  You should also have copies of all paperwork attached to the crate itself, as well as carrying them with you.  Most people I know put them in some sort of plastic cover (like one of those page-protectors for binders, so you can still see through it) and tape it to the outside of the crate.  Make sure it is secured well, but that any airline or customs workers can easily remove the papers as needed.

European Union & USDA Health Certificates.  There is one standard Veterinary Certificate that is used for travel into any of the EU countries.  It can usually be filled out in the country you are moving to's native language, or English (be sure and check what languages are approved in your specific country).  This certificate includes information about your pet, your information, and microchip, vaccination, treatment, etc. info.  It must be filled out in full and signed by your approved/accredited veterinarian.  It also must be looked over, signed and given a raised seal by the USDA, as mentioned below.  There is also a USDA form that basically lists the same information that must be filled out and stamped as well. 

- USDA Approval & Stamping.  This is your last step of the travel prep process!  You must make an appointment and go into your local USDA APHIS office within either 7 or 10 days of your flight (I can't remember which, and can't find it anywhere in my paperwork, so make sure to check when you call your local office).   Here they will look over your EU Vet Certificate and USDA Health Certificate, make sure that they have been filled out and signed by an accredited vet, and give the USDA certificate a stamp and the EU certificate a raised seal, saying that they looked everything over that your pet is healthy and meets export requirements.  The cost of this mandatory approval is like $35.  If you had to have a rabies titer test done, it is something around $100.  Keep these documents in a safe place until travel, they are VERY important!

travel tips:
- limit your dog's food and water intake the day of your flight.  If you are flying in the morning, do not give him/her food that day until you arrive at your destination.  If you are flying in the afternoon/evening, you could try giving your dog some food (maybe half of a usual serving size) but do so at your own risk!  You don't want your pup to have an upset tummy on the plane.  Better for them to be a little hungry than throwing up!
- make sure your dog gets plenty of exercise before you get to the airport and plenty of opportunities to go to the bathroom.  It's going to be a long flight, and you want him/her to be as comfortable as possible (and hopefully sleep most of the time!)
- Maddie is trained to go to the bathroom on a "potty pad", so we always pack a few in her carrier.  When we go on long trips I take her into the "family bathroom" in the terminal, and put the pad down so she has an opportunity to go to the bathroom between flights/right after a long flight.  It's also a nice way for her to get out and stretch her legs!
- you can offer your dog small amounts of water during the flight, but don't overdo it.  I usually give Maddie a water bottle cap-full of water every now and then.  Enough to quench her thirst and keep her hydrated, but not too much that she gets a tummy ache.
- always bring a little bit of food with you, even if you plan to buy some at your destination.  You never know what will happen during your travel or once you arrive, so it's important to have a little extra food with you for your dog to eat in case you get stuck.  This way, you can feed him/her right away when you get to your destination also.  Trying to find a pet store immediately upon arrival in a different country is not going to be easy.  Plus your dog will most likely be hungry!

Life After you Arrive in Europe
- Food.  This was another one of my big questions I had before moving.  Luckily, my husband was over here before I was, so he had time to scope it out and check out what kinds of dog food they had.  Hill's Science Plan (called Science Diet in the U.S.) is widely available and highly recommended by vets.  This is what we started using.  I've also seen Purina in Finland, along with a few others that I can't remember.  If your dog isn't already eating this brand at home, and you plan to switch to it when you get here, I recommend getting a small bag at home and introduce it to your dog before you move.  Mix half the old food and half of the Science Plan, so your dog's stomach can get used to the change.  Dogs can get sick from a switch in foods (add that on to the change in environment, and your dog might really be thrown off for a while), and this is the easiest way to prevent that.  Since it's also available in the States, we will be able to stick with the same food from now on, even in the off-season.  (Warning: I can't speak for all countries, but in Finland, like everything else, dog food is EXPENSIVE.  We're talking 50 euros for a 7.5 kg bag!)

- Culture. For the most part, dogs are widely accepted throughout Europe.  In some countries, they are welcome almost anywhere (restaurants, bakeries, stores, etc.)  In Finland, there are lots of dog parks (even in the city!) for your dog to run and play, on or off their leash.  When I was reading up prior to our move, I read that dogs are "so well behaved in Europe" and that dogs with any sort of behavioral issues are highly frowned upon.  Maddie is very well behaved, but she's not perfect.  She loves people, and therefore runs up to every one she comes across.  She isn't vicious and would never bite, but shes a dog, and dogs bark once in a while.  Big deal.  Anyways, I was worried even our precious pooch would be out of place when we got here-- definitely NOT!  Most dogs we have come across are just the same or worse than she is.  It's no different than at home.

- Vet.  It's a good idea to find a vet shortly after you arrive in Europe.  This way if you ever need to get in or in case of an emergency, you already have a relationship established.  Unless you're really out in the boonies, you should be able to find one that at least somewhat speaks English. 

- Grooming.  Usually your new vet can provide you with recommendations for a new groomer as well.  From our experience, grooming in Europe is no different than grooming in the U.S.  Just a lot more expensive (in Finland, at least)!


I hope you are not too discouraged by all of this information!  In all reality, it's not as bad as it looks.  And if you have a knowledgeable and experienced veterinarian, it should all be done very smoothly.  Like I said, the hardest part is the flight booking process.  Don't skip out on any parts of the process though, or you risk your pet not being accepted.  Just make sure that you have all of your information put together for when you travel, and keep it right on you in your carry-on. 

After I researched and did all of this stuff, the guy I had at Customs when I arrived in Finland didn't want anything to do with a dog or dog papers.  I told him I had one with me, and he kind of nodded and gave me a "ok, cool... good for you" sort of look.  I was like, are you kidding me buddy?  I just spent all this time, energy and money getting this stuff done, and I can't even beg you to glance it over?  Figures.  Don't assume this will happen to you though!  I think it all depends on where you are going and the specific person who you speak with at Customs.

I hope this provides some guidance to anyone who is looking to travel/ move to Europe with a dog.  Please don't hesitate to ask any questions, I'm more than happy to try and help!  And if you have moved to Europe with a dog and would like to share your experience and any tips, feel free, I'd love to hear other people's experiences as well!

(I better end with a disclaimer.  I am no expert in traveling with a dog, nor do I claim to be.  This is meant to be a guide only.  Laws and regulations change frequently, so make sure you do your research and follow the proper protocol specific to the country you are moving to.)

Happy & Safe Traveling!

1.14.2011

that's it.

...I'm going to the spa.  I need some severe de-stressing and relaxation.  I've been in a terrible funk for over a week now and can't seem to shake it. 


I was hesitant to make any sort of blog posts about my little self-pity party, in fear that friends, family, and anyone else reading would think that I had gone off the deep end and put me in a psych ward.  But if it's any consolation, over the past couple weeks, I have found that I'm not alone.  Fellow hockey wife bloggers KY , Hockey Wife and Life of a Hockey Widow have recently blogged about similar feelings.  KY has dubbed it "hockey season-al depression", and it is just that. 

It's January.  It's cold.  It's dark.  The new-ness of the hockey season and excitement of being in a new place is totally gone.  It's the second half of the season, yet the off-season seems so far away.   The holidays have come and gone.  It's been almost 5 months since I've seen friends or family back home.  The day-to-day struggles of living in a foreign country, though a little easier now, are still very present and real.  (this is where I could go on and on forever... but I'll spare us both)

I think know J has come scar-ily close to booking me on the next flight home the past few days.  I haven't been able to shake things, even with all of his love and support.  I've realized this is something that no one is going to be able to fix but me

As a friend (and fellow hockey wife in Europe)'s facebook status said today: 

"We may not be able to control events, but we can control our attitude toward them."

It is so right.  I need an attitude adjustment. 

So today I called J while he was on the bus to an away game.  Short and sweet, "I'm going to the spa.  I need a massage.  I love you, I'm sorry.  Bye"

Time to shift the negativity into positivity.  What better way to start than with a trip to the spa, follwed by a girls night while the guys are gone?  Ahhhhh, I can feel the stress shedding from my body already....

1.09.2011

you want me to... what?

I thought I'd dedicate my post today to some of the goofy (to us, at least) things that we encounter on a somewhat daily basis here in Finland.  I'm not sure if all of these things are standard around other parts of Europe or not, but they are sure to raise the eyebrows of anyone from the U.S.!

1)  Buying bags at the grocery store (or any store for that matter).  Sure, you may spend 100 euros, but does that earn you the right to get your purchase in a plastic (that probably cause them about 5 cents, tops) bag to carry home?  Not at the majority of stores you walk into!  If you want a bag, you had better grab one and put it on the checkout counter, it's going to cost you 20 cents.  Oh, you'd prefer paper? That'll be 50!  No, 20 cents won't break the bank, but if you count every time you go to the store (x the number of bags you get) it starts to add up.  We use reusable bags both here and at home, but of course only remember them half the time.  I guess it's a good effort to encourage recycling and not wasting bags, which I don't disagree with, but c'mon, if I spend a significant amount of money in your store, the least you could do is give a sister a bag (I promise I'll reuse it as a trash bag later!)

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 2)  Bagging your own groceries.  After that shiny-new-20-cent plastic bag comes across the scanner, you had better get your tush to the end of the checkout and start filling it.  Fast.  No, the bagger boy isn't just lagging behind at the checkout next to you... YOU are the bagger boy.  You quickly catch on to a good method on how to properly pack a grocery bag (which leaves you wondering how the bagger boys at home still always manage to put your eggs and bread on the bottom...) and, if you're like me, start testing your skills and timing yourself to see how fast you can go.  I even sometimes (secretly) race the person next to me and do a little celly dance if I win.  Hey, life is only as fun as you make it, right?


hey kids... I'll give you a dollar if you bag mine, too!

3) Assigned seats at the movie theatre.  I think I could go either way with this one.  Doesn't seem like all that bad of an idea, you get to pick where you want to sit, plus you don't have to worry about rushing right into the theatre to get a good seat (you won't want to when you see how many different kinds of foods, drinks and candy are scattered throughout the lobby!).  But I think we can all think of a time or 2 when you get stuck next to the group of 13 year olds that giggle every time they say "boob" or the chatty group of ladies there for their "mom's night out" gossip session (why did you come to a movie theatre again?).  In that case, I enjoy my freedom of being able to get up and move to the furthest seat possible.

no lady, your kid throwing popcorn at the back of my head is NOT cute
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4) The bathroom door code.  So, you need to get up from your movie and take a potty break? (hey, those 32 oz. soft drinks will get the best of everyone...)  Better bring your ticket with you!  No, not to get back in the theatre... but because you will need the "bathroom code" that is printed on it.  When I first saw the keypad next to the bathroom door that was locked I thought "wtf? I have to pay to use the bathroom, too?!"  Nah, you just need the 4 digit code on your ticket, but that's still beyond my comprehension.  Do movie theatres have a problem with homeless people coming in to bathe in their bathrooms or something?


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5) No drinks in the seating area.  Ok, so the reason I go to hockey games is obviously to watch my husband play.  But as for the 8,000 or so other people, I'd venture to guess that most of them are there for some combination of watching hockey, socializing, and having a few adult beverages.  I don't usually choose to drink at my hubby's games (I like to actually watch the game, plus I'm not a big drinker as it is)  but I think that this rule is really pointless.  No one is allowed to bring alcohol into the seating area, it must remain in the concourse area.  So, needless to say, come the last minute of the period there is a huge rush out to the concession stands, bars and restaurants to binge as many drinks as possible in the next 20 minutes.  This creates ridiculously long lines and overcrowding of the concourse.  It will take you the entire intermission just to fight the crowd and get around the arena once.  I think their theory is that it slows down people's drinking (Finns tend to drink a lot, which brings them out of their usual shy shell... a.k.a. they get ROWDY) but here's a hint: it doesn't!  It just means that instead of casually drinking 3 beers over 2 periods, they guzzle them all in one intermission.  FAIL!


Crowd during the game (away game)

Intermission

5)  What's a stop sign?  There are virtually no stop signs around.  It is common knowledge that the car to the right has the "right of way" so when you come up to an intersection, you yield to them.  Sure, we use the same concept in the U.S., but it almost always accompanies a stop sign or light (or at very least, a yield sign!)  If we Americans just assumed everyone to follow this, there would be a lot more accidents, and quite frankly (thinking especially back to my days of living in Massachusetts... haha ;) )  I'd be scared to drive. 


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6) What's that?  You wanted the box with your shoes?  Here, when you buy a pair of shoes, they take them out of the box and put them, just the shoes, into the bag.  I'm guessing to reuse the box and reduce waste, but c'mon, if I buy expensive shoes I do NOT want them sitting loose in a bag while I carry it home.  This reminds me of a pair of black stilettos I bought last month- I was carrying my unboxed new shoes home in their bag and stopped at the liquor store.  I happened to stumble across some Sam Adam's Winter Lager at the store (not a common occurance, so when you find that kind of stuff, you have to get it!)  In attempt to reduce waste (okay, and save 20 cents) I chose to put them in my bag from the shoe store.  2 black stilettos and 8 bottles of beer.  CLASSY.

I wonder where people here keep all of their old love notes and memorablia from ex's?

That's all I've got for now.  I'm sure I could think of a bunch of other things, but that's what is on the top of my head tonight.  Any of you that are living away from home and experience similar quirky things, feel free to add to my list! :)

1.03.2011

it's official...

We're going to be in Finland for 2 more seasons!  It's been in the works for a little while, but J just signed his extension through the 2012-2013 season today.  I'm excited I can finally tell our family and friends now :) 

guess I better finally crack open my Finnish book and start studying!

It's really nice (and kind of crazy...) to know exactly where we'll be for the next 2 1/2 years.  That sounds silly to anyone outside of the hockey world... but in professional hockey, that's quite a long time.  Just like the rest of the job market, hockey jobs have become increasingly hard to come by in recent years.  We know many people who are playing in leagues lower than they should be just because there is nothing available.  Or who aren't playing at all this year.  There are just a lot of good hockey players out there. 

Now that's 2 more years we don't have to compete with all of the other talented players for a job.  Many players in North America don't know where they'll be playing that season until well into September & October.  They bounce around from NHL camps to AHL camps and go back and fourth until they (maybe) win a spot on a team.  And how many spend their time split between leagues, living out of suitcases in hotels?  I cannot tell you how fortunate we are feeling right now.  And how proud I am of my husband.  He works extremely hard, and has earned everything he has been given.  So, since I know he is going to read this and is sure to be embarassed about my "proud hockey wife" rant... I'll stop now. :)

Other than that, not a whole lot new around these parts.  We've been so busy lately, or at least it feels like it.  It seems like we always have somewhere we have to go in the afternoon when J gets home from practice.  The team has 3 games a week in the coming weeks also, so that will really add to the busyness of our lives.  Guess it's better than being bored all the time, right?

For New Years Eve, we went to one of the other guys and his wife's house for a small get-together.  There was lots of good food, wine, champagne, and company!  We had a great time.  There was also some action outside- some neighbor kids were outside setting off fireworks for a good part of the night (fireworks are a big tradtion on NYE here).  These ones were a little big for kids to be setting off (can you say illegal in the U.S.?) but they appeared to be having fun and we were enjoying watching them.  That is, until they hit the HOUSE next door and set it on FIRE!  Luckily, there was no one inside(!!) and no one living there at the present time, and we were a good 75 yards away from it.  I have never seen a house fire that close up.  It was blazing for a good couple hours as the firemen were trying to put it out.  Actually, when we left it was still going.

  poor house! thank GOD no one was in it!!


On New Years Day, we stayed up until 3 am to watch the Rose Bowl (it started at midnight our time!)  Too bad our Badgers lost :( 

Hope you all are having a fabulous start to 2011.  I've been trying to come up with some New Years Resolutions, but I am stumped this year.  I really can't come up with anything that is worth "resolving", or anything that I know I will actually stick to.  Maybe I'll come up with something in the next few days.  What are your New Years Resolutions? 

12.21.2010

10 things i am most thankful for in 2010

Sure, Thanksgiving was a month ago.  But all of the holiday season is a time to think about what we are thankful for and also to reflect on everything that happened over the past year.  With that, I decided to make a list of my:

Top 10 Things I am Most Thankful for in 2010

(tie) 1) Family and Friends.  No brainer.  Sorry if I'm boring you by putting them at the top of every list I make, but how could I not?  We're blessed with such wonderful people in our lives, and they deserve every bit of recognition that I can give them.  You help make both of us the people that we are.

(tie) 1) My husband.  I couldn't ask for a better person to spend the rest of my life with.  This has been a huge year for us, and I know it's only going to get even better.  You're always there for me when I'm having a tough day and can always put a smile on my face. 

3) Our Dream Wedding.  It is, and probably will forever be, the best (and most fun) day of our lives.  We had 160 of our nearest and dearest all in the same room to celebrate us.  What more could you ask for?  Everything worked out flawlessly (ok, I'm sure there were a little bumps throughout the day... but obviously they weren't a big deal since I don't even remember them 6 months later!)  Everyone had such a blast and it turned out just the way we were hoping it to.  I'm even more thankful to our parents, because if it wasn't for them, it would have never happened.


4) Hockey.  Sure, it's a love-hate relationship, but there's no denying that it has brought great things to our lives.  First, it provides an income for us.  And how many other people get to move to Europe in their twenties?  There are definitely perks that come with the life.  On top of it all, my husband gets to wake up every morning knowing that he's going to a job that he loves.  Doesn't get much better than that.  As a friend of mine quotes on her facebook profile "Find a job that you love, and you'll never have to work a day in your life."

5) Other Hockey Wives.  Whether it's ones I know personally or not, these ladies make me feel a lot less alone in this crazy little world that we live in.  From advice to sharing stories, support to making new friends, I don't know what I'd do without them!  So few people understand our lives, so it's important to be able to connect with one another and have people to talk to who "get it".

6) Skype.  I hadn't really used Skype much until this year.  Now, I don't know what I'd do without it!!  Being able to talk to and SEE family and friends across the world is amazing.  I can't imagine what it would be like living over here without it (and it wasn't that long ago that people had to!)


7) Money.  But not in the sense that you're thinking of.  I am thankful that we have a steady income to support ourselves and pay the bills.  It seems like a simple thing, but so many people don't even have that.  The security that it provides makes day to day life a lot easier (which, I know, is where the irony comes in, since many say that money only complicates things)



8) Maddie.  She probably knows me better than anyone else, even my hubby.  She hears all my secrets and  see how I act when nobody is watching.  She nurses me when I'm sick, sleeps on my feet when they're cold, and listens to me when I need someone to talk to.  No one else gets so excited every time I walk in the door and makes me feel as important as she does.



9) Finland.  I feel so blessed to have been given the opportunity to live in this beautiful country.  I learn something new about it every day, and it has been a wonderful place to live.  Almost every person I have come into contact with has been welcoming and helpful.  The team has been wonderful to us, and I have only good things to say about our stay here so far!


10) Learning so many new things about myself.  Okay, that's kind of broad.  But I think I have grown a lot as a person in the past year especially, and I'm really proud of that.  Every challange that I face (and overcome) makes me aware of what a strong person I am.  I think I have always been ahead of my years in maturity, but I think I have surpassed even that in this past year.  I have learned a lot of new things about the world, cultures, people, myself, and life in general.  I'm pretty content with who I am right now :)



Also:  I added a "my story" page at the top.  For those of you interested in reading, you can also find it here.

days until Christmas!

12.15.2010

top 10 things i miss most about home

Unfortunately, we don't get to go back to the U.S. for Christmas (the guys don't have enough time off) and it will be our first Christmas that we don't spend with our families.  I've been a little sad about it, but I've come to terms with the fact that this is our lives now and pouting about it isn't going to change anything.  We just have to make the most of what we're given to work with, and we plan to do just that.  It's time to start some of our own holiday traditions :)

Christmas "break" marks the halfway point through the season here in Finland.  Time flies!  Since the holiday season has been making me think more about home lately, I thought I'd dedicate my post to the things that I miss most about home. 



1) Obviously, the thing that I miss most about home is our family and friends.  Nothing else on this list means as much as them.  We are so lucky to have such wonderful loved ones who support us in everything that we do.  As many other hockey wives know, it's not easy to keep good friends when we move around so much.  Quality far outweights quantity.  Luckily for me, I've got a few quality good friends that understand our crazy lives :)

2) My Blackberry.  The phone I have here right now is brand new, but I'm pretty sure it's the same model I was using in 2002.  Anyone remember T9 texting?  Yup, that's what I have to use!  It's almost comical.  Aside from the visual embarassment and functional difficulties, No Blackberry = no BBM and internet to connect with my family and friends easier :(  It is so weird to not be able to pick up my phone and BBM/text someone whenever I think of something or feel like talking to someone.   Why don't I just get a Blackberry here, you ask?  Well, Finland has decided to make as difficult as possible for me seeing as they don't sell them anywhere here!  Nowhere! not in the entire country.  Ugh!  Although, I'm hoping Santa will find a way to bring me a new one this year...


3) A Clothes Dryer.  Seems sooo simple... yet... not.  Not only am I sick of air drying all of my clothes (hello, they get super stiff!)  but it's annoying that you can't do more than one load of laundry per day (no where to put it!) and our apartment isn't the biggest in the first place- much less having the drying rack taking up space.  And, sometimes you just don't want the drying rack sitting out.  Um... I don't really care to have my undies sitting out to dry when we have company over, thanks!


4) Target.  Do I really need to explain this one?  I am the Target queen!  If I could only shop at one store for the rest of my life, I would choose Target.  I don't think I've ever stepped foot in the store and not come out with anything. 


5)  Nordstrom/Macy's.  My 2 favorite department stores.  Stockmann department store here definitely rivals them (and in many areas wins!)  but I have small feet, and I know I can always find shoes at Nordstrom and not having to worry about seeing a 10 year old wearing the same pair.  They are one of the few places that carry size 4 and 5 (and more than just 1 pair!) and if they don't have them in, they order them and have them sent to my door for free.  Both of these stores have a lot of the brands and designers that I love, and for fractions of the prices they are here.


6) Culver's.  Ohhh, Cuvler's.  I hate to love you, but I do.  We try to eat very healthy, but Culver's is one guilty pleasure that I will give into.  I am in love with their chili cheese fries.  Top it off with a dish of custard for dessert and you will be my best friend forever.


7) My car.  Well, technically it's not even my car anymore.. my parents bought it in the first place so my mom repo-ed it when we moved across the pond :)  But, I miss my Altima!  And driving at all for that matter.  I'm afraid I won't know how to drive when we get back!  It's been 3 1/2 months since I've driven at all.  And that doesn't look like it'll be changing anytime soon...


8) A bath tub. (and Bath and Body Works goodies to go with it) Another one of those "so simple, yet so hard" things.  I can't count how many times I've been dying to take a nice warm bubble bath after coming in from out in the freezing cold.  Not only that, but I actually have the time on my hands to sit and take a relaxing bath for once.  Yet we're stuck with only a shower.  Go figure :( 


9) American TV shows.  Sure, we get them here... if you like watching My Super Sweet 16 season 1 on repeat all weekend.  The shows that are on tv here are always a season behind, and they are seriously lacking in variety.  J lucks out most from this one- all of his hockey channels seem to come in just fine!  Weird how that works ;).  The biggest bummer is not even being able to watch shows online (legally, at least)  because they are "blocked" over here.  It just makes it that much more difficult to try and watch... needless to say I don't do a whole lot of tv watching here.  My apologies to HGTV, TLC, and E! ... your ratings are probably down.  I'll be back in the Spring, promise! :)


10) A familiar grocery store/Trader Joe's/Whole Foods.  Oh, how I miss being able to maneuver the aisles and actually know what I'm getting.  I'm getting better and better here, but almost always before I try a new recipe I have to get advice from my good old buddy Google Translate before I hit the store.  Several times I have bought things thinking they were one thing only to find out they were something completely different.  Not to mention trying to find natural/organic products poses great difficulty also.  I think we do okay, but I can't wait to get back and get my hands on some of the stuff that we aren't able to buy here.  Not to mention all those cute names they have for things at TJ's!



I'm sure I could go on and on as I thought of more things... but I'm curious to know what you think.  What would you miss the most if you were away from home for a good portion of the year?  Hockey wives, what can you not wait to get your hands on in the offseason?  It's amazing to realize how much you take for granted once you step back and think about it... :)